An old favorite post of mine from a previous blog, this really was a wonderful reminder to me as I left for vacation this week.  I hope you enjoy…

If you’re anything like me, you spend much of your days wishing for more.  If I could just have another couple hundred dollars in my paycheck to cover baby expenses, I’d be set, I tell myself.

A few hundred dollars more and I could afford a nice vacation each year, maybe to exotic beaches and fantastic lands.

My home is nice, but a bigger one would be better, right?  More room for the kids to run around and less bumping into each other or tripping over stuff.

We want more.  That’s why we set goals, why we rarely enjoy the things we have, the accomplishments we have made.  We always have our eye on something more.

You will never have enough…

I won’t pretend to know who you are, those of you who are reading this.  Chances are you have your own great challenges that I can only imagine, just as I, as blessed as I am, have my own challenges and tests of character.  I type these words hoping that we have a mutual understanding and respect.

I can make a basic assumption about you, that if you have the means and the opportunity to read this online, your basic needs are taken care of.  You have clothing (though you may not be wearing it at the moment).  You have shelter, possibly modest, but none the less sufficient to keep you safe from the elements.  You are adequately fed to the degree that you choose.

You obviously have access to a computer, whether it be a public one from the library or one of your own.

You may feel like you have no one who loves you in the world but they are there, somewhere, I assure you.

You Have Everything You Need…

Please don’t think that I preach against coveting and goal setting.  A big part of what makes life special is setting goals and striving.  I have little patience for bloggers who advocate a life of navel-gazing and doing less…way less.

It’s a matter of finding “enough.”  And that concept of enough is a personal quest.  No blogger can determine this for you.  That’s why keeping up with the Joneses is such a foolish endeavor.  Learn to think for yourself and make your own decisions.

It’s terrific to find inspiration from others, but don’t covet what your neighbor has.  The better that you can define your level of contentment, the easier it will be to bring that to fruition.

A blog post isn’t going to tell you what you want.  Like each of these levels, it is deeply personal and if you can habitually unplug from external stimuli, and really explore the question of “What do I want to create in my life?” only then will you truly be able to craft an authentic life.

I feel like I am waking up a bit (finally!) and have begun to quite publicly, on this blog, question my previous actions, create a new future, and enjoy a bit of what is happening now.  When you realize that you are empowered to do this, it doesn’t matter as much what is going on with the economy or what the Joneses have down the street that you don’t.

Hopefully this sparks those of you who need it to do the same.

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The Tao Project Passage 12

by Charley on July 25, 2010

Each Sunday (ok, most Sundays) I have a weekly feature here at You, Simplified where I share my thoughts on a passage of the Tao Te Ching.  I’ve dedicated a page of the website to serve as the table of contents for all the musings.  Additionally,a blogging friend of mine, Kye Nelson, is joining in on the fun and we invite other bloggers and readers to share their thoughts as well. Together we have are calling this The Tao Project.

Now, on to Passage 12:

Colors blind the eye

Sounds deafen the ear.

Flavors numb the taste

Thoughts weaken the mind.

Desires wither the heart.

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The master observes the world

but trusts his inner vision.

He allows things to come and go.

His heart is open as the sky.

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Commentary:

This is a very short passage but its message to me is ever more relevant than at any point in history.

We are so inundated with sensual stimuli in modern society that we haven’t a moment to hear ourselves think.

Try something new next time and ride to and from work without the radio on.  Ride in silence and just concentrate on the moment of driving.

I used to load up my IPOD with all sorts of personal development tracks and ride my bike into work.  Then I realized I was missing the sights, the sounds, the smells.  Like the moment that I make a right to drive along the water and I pick up the smell of sea life.  Or when I ride by the granaries and catch the smell of fresh baked cereals.  These are delights to the senses and I delight in their simplicity and can enjoy them without the other distractions.  I can hear the sounds of birds and when I stop for a moment, I can pick out clouds and playfully burst them.

I enjoy these moments of beauty, in the moment, but I can always let them go for the next delight.  Am I a Tao master?  Hardly, but I can take the reminders to drive out the distractions and simply observe the world as it goes by.

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31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge – Day 13

by Charley on July 21, 2010

It’s the morning evening of Day 13 14 of my 31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge and I thought now would be a good time to give a recap of the previous four days… 

But first, here are the links to the first two circuit reports: 

Cycle 1 of the 31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge 

Cycle 2 of the 31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge 

Day 9 

 

Probably the best picture so far.  You can see a couple ribs on each side! 

I discussed previously that there were some all day meetings that created an extra hurdle to my triathlon workouts that I wasn’t able to overcome.  So there was a swim on this day, but not on the next two days.  And I did not do a bike ride to and from work on any of the four days. 

But I did stay true to cycle 3 of the 4×7, which are the The Bodyweight Exercise Revolution workouts.  This being Day 1 of cycle 3, it was the zero-intensity range of motion workout. 


 

Day 10 

 

You can see Eyore taunting me in the lower left hand corner.  That’s actually hurtful.  Diet sucked on this day and the following.  When you’re sequestered in a room for two days for meetings you tend to eat whatever shyt snacks somebody brought in to share (or at least I do).  I remember longing for the time to swim or bike off the excess calories.  Alas, life is not always perfect and neither am I. 

DAY 11 

 

This would be after the second full day of long meetings and crappy snacks at work.  My lack of perparation with my diet is my downfall.  I used to always say that I worked out hard so that I could eat whatever crap I want.  That doesn’t work so good anymore when you’re in your late 30’s.  

Day 12 

 

Day 12 I was back in the flow and even got a Swim in.  Looking forward to the next cycle so I can get back to biking and swimming regularly. 

TACFit Commando is the next level of workouts from the developers of The Bodyweight Exercise Revolution workouts.  I’ve been looking at the TACFit program and it looks very good, even includes diet recommendations, but the workouts are more advanced than where I am at now.  So, until I work my way up…. 

I just wanted to add a note that I will going on vacation with my wife and the babies this Saturday and I will be gone for eight days.  I’ll be scheduling ahead a few posts since I will actually have zero internet access where I’m going.  In fact, I think it’ll be nice to unplug for a bit. 

I’ll be just over the border in Fort Erie, Ontario (Canada) at the beach.  I won’t be bringing a bike since I have two baby strollers to contend with along with untold amounts of baby stuff.  I’m actually packed in one leather briefcase to compensate.  I expect to get my runs (which is different that “I expect to get the runs”) in on this vacation and to practice some open water swimming.  

Anywho, if you leave comments during that time, I’ll likely not be able to attend to them till I return.  Very sorry but I’m not rich enough to hire email ninjas yet. 

This also means that I won’t have any 31 Day Fitness Challenge updates till I get back either.  But I look forward to keeping the momentum going and will report on my progress when I return. 

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The Tao Project – Passage 11

by Charley on July 18, 2010

Each Sunday (ok, most Sundays) I have a weekly feature here at You, Simplified where I share my thoughts on a passage of the Tao Te Ching.  I’ve dedicated a page of the website to serve as the table of contents for all the musings.  Additionally,a blogging friend of mine, Kye Nelson, is joining in on the fun and we invite other bloggers and readers to share their thoughts as well. Together we have are calling this The Tao Project.

Now, on to Passage 11:

We join spokes together in a wheel,

but it is the center hole

that makes the wheel move.

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We shape clay into a pot,

but it is the emptiness inside

that holds whatever we want.

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We hammer wood for a house,

but it is the inner space

that makes it livable.

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We work with the being,

but non-being is what we use.

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Commentary:

This passage reminded me right away of an interview I read more than twenty years ago with Guitarist Jake E. Lee, who is perhpas most famous for playing on Ozzy Osbourne’s Bark at the Moon and the Ultimate Sin from the early and mid-1980’s (stay with me here).

I was fifteen at the time, I think, and I can’t find the original interview online anywhere but if you listened to heavy metal music in the 1980’s you know that it was all very busy music.  Lee had just left Ozzy Osbourne and was working with his new band, Badlands.  The music was decidedly minimalistic comparitively and what he said has stuck with me for every piece of music I’ve written and recorded since.

He said (paraphrasing) the space between the musical notes were more important than the notes themselves.

It is the space between the sounds that gives the music the beauty and form.  It is the space in the home that allows us to live.

It is the space in things where we may find ourselves.

It is the things we don’t write as writers that allow the reader to find meaning.

This is what makes the Tao so powerful.

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31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge – Day 9

by Charley on July 15, 2010

It’s the morning of my Day 9 Personal Fitness Challenge and I thought now would be a good time to give a recap of the previous four days…

I got a comment on the previous article from Karol Gajda of Riduculously Extraordinary who checked out my post and thought that my “diet” was in effect starving myself.  I respect Karol greatly and so I wanted to take another look at it and possibly provide an explanation.

First, I’m not intentionally starving myself.  In fact, the only reason I’ve been writing down my diet during this is that I suspect that I’ve been consuming too many calories for far too long, hence my thirty pound weight gain, and the only way I can know for sure is to track my normal behavior for a bit.

I’ve lived in upstate New York for all my 37 years, always in the snow belt.  And I’ve always noticed a pattern with myself.  As the weather gets cold, I crave heavier foods, stews, chili’s etc. and I take in a lot more calories.  In the summers, the weather changes significantly to hot and humid so I crave less food.

During the first week of July 2010 we had record heat waves in the mid to high nineties and the fact is, it was too damn hot to eat.  It may as well have been 120 degrees considering the vast temperature ranges we live through here.  I ate till I was comfortable and then didn’t eat any more.  I’ve always been that way.

I agree with Karol that if I could eat all the rice, beans, fruits, veggies and oatmeal I want and lose weight, but I’m just not craving any of that except for the fruit and the veggies right now.  I prefer cold cereals in the summer over hot oatmeal, but that will reverse come autumn.

Karol asked whether the The Bodyweight Exercise Revolution (aff) recommended such a strict diet and it, in fact, doesn’t contain any diet-related information at all.  It truly is a Bodyweight Exercise program.

I am excited to see their new TacFIT program, which is more comprehensive and contains a diet eBook and even a Menu’s eBook but the The Bodyweight Exercise Revolution contains the most effective high intensity, short-duration routines that I know of.

I realize that the last post was quite long so I’ll try to be more brief, focusing more on the results I’ve noticed after completing the first two iterations of the 4 X 7 program.

The poor pictures do not illustrate the most compelling story as of yet, but I feel much less flabby already, particularly in my core.  My legs get A LOT of work on this workout, followed by my abs getting targeted second.  So, my legs feel rock solid already.

During the first iteration of 4X7, I was able to fit in multiple iterations of biking, running and swimming for my triathlon training program.  Due to weather, and having to facilitate day long JAD’s at work this week (resulting in no “lunch hours” by which to swim) I’ve missed out on a lot of this training the last four days.  I ran once on Sunday, and I swam once on Tuesday.  I’ve not biked at all this week.

I am hoping to ride the bike to and from work tomorrow but we are expecting Thunderstorms, so it may just be the swim on lunch tomorrow.  Game-time decision.

A brief recap:

Day 5 – Zero Intensity

I got a nice 1.75 mile run in, had a good sweat going and really felt strong throughout.  I finished that up with the Zero-Intensity Bodyweight workout that involves active stretching and range of motion exercises.

I won’t detail my diet for the four days this time, but suffice it to say, it was much the same as the previous four except that there were no evil deserts taunting me from the kitchen.  So, in fact, I think I ate better.  Leftovers were the order of the day, feeding on fruit, cereals, and vegetarian minestrone soup for dinner.

Day 6 – Low Intensity

This being a Monday, I would have liked to have rode my bike to work.  I mistakenly took the advice of our weatherman in that we were expecting T-storms on this day and Tuesday so I didn’t ride.  I did the Prasara yoga routine and I noticed that I was much better able to move through the exercises than I was on day 2.

I’ve been battling dizzy spells all week and I suspect that it’s related to stress at work.  I was having bouts of dizzyness in January which forced me to get glasses and a head scan, neither of which helped so they told me that I just needed to relax more.  Prasara yoga?

Diet was okay.  My vegetarian choices at work are few and we honestly have little time to cook these days.  We work hard to prepare and feed the triplets now that they are eating some mashed people food, but then my wife and I just pick at whatever we can find in the short blocks of time where we have peace to do so.

I had a Subway Veggie flatbread sandwich at work, a couple of pieces of mushroom pizza at home since we had family over and some eggs for breakfast.

Day 7 – Moderate Intensity

I had been doing my workouts in the morning but this particular morning was extra chaotic with the kids.  So I did manage to swim 425 meters on lunch, and then didn’t get my moderate intensity exercise in till around 9pm.  My son Owen has all of a sudden started screaming for an hour to two hours when we try to put him to sleep.  It complicates matters because if we let it go for more than fifteen minutes at a time, he will wake up the other two and they will start screaming.

So, I actually had to take several breaks in my routine to go up and soothe him.  My wife had taken Bella to the store, leaving me with the boys, so I was the only one there to do it.  It was around ten o’clock before I got the last iterations done and I actually fell asleep on the floor for a half hour.  Taking an hour to do what should be a twenty minute high intensity program defeats the purpose a bit but I just wanted to share that life isn’t always cooperative to what you want to do so if you want to get it done, you have to push through some boundaries and work around some obstacles.

Taking an hour to do twenty minutes of exercise is a whole lot better than spending an hour on zero exercises…I hope that made sense.

Day 8 – High Intensity

My first go on Day 4 of the High Intensity routine was not very successful.  I shyt the bed (metaphorically speaking) but again, some exercise was better than none.

On Day 8, while I still couldn’t do 8 full rounds of the four exercise routine, I did a whole lot better than Day 4, which encourages me for the next leg.  I’ve come to realize that I will consider this 31 Day challenge very successful if I am able to complete all of the iterations, in the time alloted, for each round of the four days of exercise, and so that is my goal.

For days 7 and 8 my diet was much the same.  Eggs in the morning, salads in the afternoon, and the last of the Minestrone soup by Day 8.

Where am I at with my weight?  It’s fluctuated a pound here and there as I am building muscle while losing fat.  As of this morning, I am at 188 pounds and am much more pleased with how I feel and how my physique is noticeably hardening.

If anyone has any words of wisdom or encouragement, or even if you want to call me a puss, by all means, share in the comments.

I’ll report in again on day 13.  Many thanks for reading.

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31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge – Day 5

July 11, 2010

It’s the morning of my Day 5 Personal Fitness Challenge and I thought now would be a good time to give a recap of the previous four days.
The Bodyweight Exercise Revolution (aff) breaks the exercise routine down to four different workouts over four days.  Then you repeat the sequence seven times so I’ve now finished [...]

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31 Day Personal Fitness Challenge

July 7, 2010

I’m the fat kid in the picture.
No, the one standing up.
It doesn’t look too bad, right?   You may be able to tell that I’ve had an athletic body in the (distant) past.  It’s not the worst I’ve looked.  I’d say I topped out on the bad end maybe a month ago before I decided to [...]

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A Triathlon and Giving Back to the Community

July 5, 2010

Ok, I know it’s been a week since I’ve posted but that’s been more to do with personal schedule than anything else.  I wanted to take a few minutes to run through my experience of enduring a mini-triathlon this weekend even though I am still pretty fat….and out of shape….and older.
I was hoping that they [...]

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The Tao Project – Passage 10

June 27, 2010

Each Sunday I have a weekly feature here at You, Simplified where I share my thoughts on a passage of the Tao Te Ching.  I’ve dedicated a page of the website to serve as the table of contents for all the musings.  Additionally,a blogging friend of mine, Kye Nelson, is joining in on the fun [...]

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Zen and the Art of Doing Whatever the F*ck You Want

June 23, 2010

“Stop doing what you think you should be doing.
Do what you want to do, do what makes you feel good,
do what you feel inspired to do.
Remember that in your world, you make up the rules.
Stress is optional.“
~ Tina Su
The first blog article I read this morning was Tina Su’s The Art of Happiness.  It’s fortuitous [...]

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